Philadelphia |
The most beautiful thing about this trip for me is learning about my own nation through the eyes of others. Today we visited the Convention Center and the Jewish History Museum in Philadelphia--two very integral places of history that I have never experienced. On the way home from Philadelphia, our car discussions were filled with the nuances of American politics and how they compare with Indonesian policies. The questions went both ways, and I ended up thinking about the American political system in terms of the international perspective.
When first starting this journey, I was certain that the Indonesian portion would be far superior to anything the boring United States could offer. However, I am learning just as much from the activities we are doing here as from the Indonesian activities, which is absolutely amazing--I am do lucky to have the opportunity to experience these things with our Indonesian counterparts.
--Ellie Craig, Lehigh University
Chinatown |
I think that one of the more surprising things about the American portion of the trip are the cultural differences that were not necessarily so apparent when we were Indonesia. A lot of my experience in Indonesia lead me to believe that the two cultures were a lot more alike than I had assumed before I left. There were still rappers, there were class differences, and there were still regular young adults going to college and getting an education like we are, only on the other side of the world.
Once we were situated in America, I came to discern that there were intricacies to this difference in culture and understanding that I had not seen before. I would often hear participants asking if it was ok to say something or ask something that I had previously regarded as fine and socially acceptable, and then realize that it did not come as common sense to them because of a culture gap. It was a pleasant personal refresher on American etiquette. I also began to think about all the things I may have done or said while I was in Indonesia that may have been offensive or rude without even realizing it.
There are certain things about American culture that make it acceptable for many of us to feel very open and free with what we discuss and ask about, and things I did not even think about being remotely offensive (and it probably was, sorry). I feel bad about it. In the same breath, there are things that I notice about our group's experience here in America that I am offended by, but it has only made me realize exactly how different it is to be raised as an American versus being raised as an Indonesian.
Often when our cultures clash, it becomes awkward, and painfully quiet. I think it is important for us to talk about the awkward and offensive things as a group because if it keeps happening and we don't discuss it openly, then we aren't learning very much about each other. I value the friendships that are forming between everyone very much and I think through open discussion and bonding that we will become even closer. I look forward to tomorrow's discussions.
--Shannon Cassidy, Lehigh University
Learning about handmade Colonial every day things |
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